How to Find or Create Your Own Community: A Guide for Young Leaders

Feeling like you don’t quite fit in anywhere? Or maybe you have a passion but can’t find others who share it? Whether you’re looking for a space to belong or thinking about starting your own, building a community is one of the most powerful things you can do. Gen Z and Alpha are natural community builders, using social media, gaming, and in-person meetups to create connections like never before.

If you’re ready to find your people—or create your own space—this guide is for you.

Step 1: Define What You’re Looking For

Before jumping in, ask yourself:

• What kind of community do I want? (Supportive, creative, activist, social, etc.)

• Do I want an in-person or online group?

• What are my core values, and do I want to connect with others who share them?

Understanding these answers will help you find (or create) the right space.

Step 2: Finding an Existing Community

If you’re looking for an established community, start by exploring:

• Social Media Groups – Instagram, Discord, Reddit, and Facebook have niche communities on almost any topic.

• School & Local Clubs – Check out student organizations, sports teams, or creative groups.

• Hobby & Interest-Based Spaces – From gaming to book clubs, there are countless spaces to meet like-minded people.

• Volunteering & Activism Groups – If you’re passionate about making a difference, getting involved in social causes can connect you with people who care about the same things.

Don’t be afraid to reach out and engage—you never know what friendships can form!

Step 3: Can’t Find Your Ideal Community? Build One!

If the space you want doesn’t exist, create it! Here’s how:

1. Pick a Purpose – What is your community about? Art? Mental health support? A local youth group? A social change movement?

2. Choose a Platform – Depending on your goal, you might use:

• Discord, WhatsApp, or Telegram for online conversations.

• Instagram or TikTok to spread awareness and grow a following.

• Meetup, school clubs, or local events for in-person connections.

3. Set Some Guidelines – Make sure your space is safe and welcoming by setting basic rules for respect, inclusivity, and engagement.

4. Invite People & Promote It – Share with friends, post on social media, or collaborate with influencers who align with your community’s purpose.

5. Stay Engaged & Grow – A great community is about consistency. Keep conversations going, host events, and listen to what your members need.

Step 4: Be a Community Leader

Creating or maintaining a community takes effort. Be someone who:

✔ Encourages positive interactions.

✔ Listens to and supports members.

✔ Promotes inclusivity and respect.

✔ Finds ways to grow and improve the space.

Final Thoughts

Community is about connection, not just numbers. Whether you find an existing one or create your own, the important thing is to be part of something that makes you feel seen, heard, and valued. And if you can provide that for others? Even better.

Your community is waiting—go find it or build it.